A controversial new sex app called "Bang With
Friends" claims to facilitate sexual encounters with users and their
Facebook friends without the embarrassment of rejection."Anonymously
find friends who are down for the night," the company website said."Your
friends will never know you're interested unless they are too!"
The
Bang With Friends app, aimed at 20-somethings, was created by three
"college-aged" men from California, who are withholding their
identities, according to US media reports.The app only alerts users of a
potential hookup if both parties express interest by selecting what is
called the "Down to Bang" button.
The creators of the app said it
has already gained more than 30,000 users, registering five new users
every minute according to a report on the online tech site
Mashable.Critics of "Bang With Friends" told RIA Novosti, putting the
physical first is the reason for the demise of the majority of marriages
and relationships in the US.
"Back in the days people would court, they would go out with different
people without exploring the sexual relationship because it allowed you
to get to know what you may or may not have in common," said Kristen
Crockett, a Washington-based relationship coach.And while some who use
the app may be more interested in sex than building a relationship,
Crockett cautions users with the potential drawbacks of getting physical
with a Facebook friend."Once you start sleeping with someone, your red
flags, your fears, all of those things get pushed into the back of your
mind," she said.She added that often people ignore signals and signs
because of how the person makes them feel physically.
One of the
app's creators told The Daily Beast that the group came up with the idea
as a way to improve traditional online dating sites like Match.com."It
would be great, as guys, if you could find out which girls are actually
into you and not dance around anything," he said.Skip the dating and
jump straight to the sex, one of the creators said.
Crockett, who
has authored several book on creating lasting relationships, met her
current boyfriend of three years on eHarmony.com.She said the couple
spent several weeks emailing and talking on the phone before they met in
person.Crockett said she is a firm believer in using technology to
cultivate a relationship, but this app goes about it the wrong way.
"I
think the app contributes to people going into a relationship and
actually dating backwards," Crocket said."It's the exception more than
the rule that a relationship will last if it has begun with a physical
encounter rather than emotional spark," she added.Currently the app only
matches users of the opposite sex.
"Support for same-sex selections is already under development," the app's creators told Mashable.
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